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Listening to the voice of doubt.
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Seeking validation externally.
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Being afraid to change my mind.
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Avoiding failure or success.
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Wondering if I'm good enough.
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Thinking it's too late to change.
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Staying silent to keep the peace.
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Comparing myself to others.
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Playing the role of a victim.
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Self-sabotaging.
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Feeling hopeless and helpless.
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Waiting for someone to save me.
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Keeping ties with fake friends and toxic people.
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Apologizing for my authenticity.
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Letting myself be emotionally manipulated.
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Helping those who refuse to help themselves.
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Spending time worrying about things I cannot control.
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Trying to make everyone happy; making everybody else's feelings and problems my own.
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Believing when people say they will change despite their actions.
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Expecting others to be as happy about my accomplishments as I am.
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Permitting the opinions and short-sighted visions of others to dictate if my dreams are worthwhile.
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Fitting into a singular definition of the multiple facets of my personality and life.
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Dimming my shine because it makes others uncomfortable.
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Waiting for others to match my growth for me to keep progressing.
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Allowing my established boundaries to be violated.
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Wasting my energy on anything that doesn't help me achieve mental or physical growth.
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Quitting on myself.
September 4, 2023